The B-word – whose is it, anyway?
Jay-Z’s promise to cut-out the “the B-word” from his lyrics has not only outraged some of his fans, but has highlighted a greater issue of American culture (ultimately North American culture) degrading women. Jay-Z made this promise after the birth of his child, Blue Ivy (poor child) and now many fans are scrambling to find new ways to justify the term.
“Hip-hop culture is no longer an isolated subcategory of culture. It is American culture now, and so it’s a much larger question of how are women represented,” Samhita Mukhopadhyay said from Brooklyn.
The article lays out a number of different ways the term is used. Some are cheeky or friendly, but most are derogatory ways to describe women as
… “money-hungry, scandalous, manipulating, and demanding woman,” according to a 2006 paper published in the Journal of Black Studies.
To many this may be just another ridiculous obsession about arbitrary societal concerns, but to others, myself included, find the use of this term particularly offensive and a contributor to the permission of men to treat women on a whole as objects. Objects to consume, purchase, offend, use, dispose of, blame, neglect, beat, break, and ultimately gain fame as men. It’s interesting how the birth of Jay-Z’s daughter, not the marriage to his wife, Beyonce, is the reason he is willing to give some credit to women as persons to be respected.
“More than in any other genre in the history of black music, commercially celebrated hip-hop swagger depends on a brand of manhood that consistently defines black women as disrespected objects,” Tricia Rose, professor at Brown University and author of TheHip Hop Wars, wrote in The Guardian on Tuesday.
“And fans of all racial backgrounds, but especially young white males, who make up the bulk of U.S. consumers, eat it up.”
To a typical person in my generation, the use of the “B-word”, wouldn’t reek havoc. There’d be no question of the underlying connotations. But this isn’t because we are genuinely okay with it, it’s apathy. The fact that the use of this term is generally uttered by males with the harshest intentions in mind, have led females to “accept” it by putting it into play in their own vocabulary. The societal belief that men are superior to women, dates back to before Christ, to think it’s not still around is absolute ludicrous. In 2012, our laws may allow women the right to abort, take contraceptives, sleep with whom they choose (male or female), vote, enter the public sphere, keep their maiden name after marriage, have children out of wedlock, run for office etc. In no way does this mean that women aren’t subjected to oppression within these rights. Gender inequality throughout the state is an official part of our culture. It’s written in our history, our songs, our movies and television shows, our elites, our politics, and our industries.
There is this belief that women should be quiet, gentle, passive, submissive, delicate creatures. So when a woman stands up for what she believes in, or is in the least bit aggressive to go up on the economic ladder, or decides her purpose in life isn’t primarily to be a homemaker or please her husband, she gets slapped with the “B-word” all over the place. Men, like Jay-Z, feed off the oppression of women in the most literal of ways. Wait a second. A man is making millions of dollars by screaming to the world he’s got “99 problems but a bitch ain’t one of them”?! That’s a new one. Or is it? For centuries women have gone unheard and unnoticed because in this world where “sex sells” our value is based on a man’s pleasure. “Bitch” is not a generic word with no connotations, it’s a word that holds power and with the help of a desensitized culture, women all over the world are so subtly being objectified by the most powerful men.
P.S. Here are my Political Compass Test results